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Session 9 - 1 Peter 5:5-7 - Alert Living - Day 2

Posted on October 22, 2016 at 3:05 PM Comments comments (0)

Session 9 - 1 Peter 5:5-7 – Alert Living – Day 2

 

1 Peter 5:5 In the same way, you younger men, be subject to the elders. And all of you clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, because God resists the proud but gives grace to the humble.

 

Younger people should submit to the elders/pastors of the church. As we have noted before, mutual submission among believers is critical for unity in the body of Christ. We should love and appreciate those who serve as leaders in the church.

 

1 Thessalonians 5:12-14 (NASB) But we request of you, brethren, that you appreciate those who diligently labor among you, and have charge over you in the Lord and give you instruction, 13 and that you esteem them very highly in love because of their work. Live in peace with one another.

 

No one in the church should think of themselves as better than any other member. We are all sinners saved by the grace of God. Peter then quotes from Proverbs 3:34. We have included that reference from two versions of the Bible to help us understand the nuances of its meaning:

 

Proverbs 3:34 (VOICE) God treats the arrogant as they treat others, mocking the mockers, scorning the scornful, but He pours out His grace on the humble.

 

Proverbs 3:34 (AMP) Though He scoffs at the scoffers and scorns the scorners, Yet He gives His grace [His undeserved favor] to the humble [those who give up self-importance].

 

We must come to the reality that we cannot live The Law; and we are in desperate need of Jesus, God in the flesh, and the grace He provided through His life, death, and resurrection. We must humble ourselves to receive salvation and must continue in humility to lead a victorious life through the power of the Holy Spirit.

 

1 Peter 5:6 Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God, so that He may exalt you at the proper time, 7 casting all your care on Him, because He cares about you.

 

Rather than being full of pride and promoting ourselves, we are to wait upon the Lord to lift us up in His time.

 

Luke 14:8-11 (VOICE) Jesus: 8 Whenever someone invites you to a wedding dinner, don’t sit at the head table. Someone more important than you might also have been invited, 9 and your host will have to humiliate you publicly by telling you to give your seat to the other guest and to go find an open seat in the back of the room. 10 Instead, go and sit in the back of the room. Then your host may find you and say, “My friend! Why are you sitting back here? Come up to this table near the front!” Then you will be publicly honored in front of everyone. 11 Listen, if you lift yourself up, you’ll be put down, but if you humble yourself, you’ll be honored.

 

We can place all our concerns, worries, angst at the feet of Jesus and trust Him with it. We can wait on His timing as far as advancement and rest on the fact that we have already been given claim to the greatest gift of all – a forever home with our Lord Jesus Christ.

 

Question: Is it easy to submit to authority? Is it proper to be submissive to leaders? Even Jesus submitted to the authority of the Father while He walked on earth. Read Philippians chapter 2 to be reminded of Jesus’ example of humility and submission, the example we are to follow.

 

Session 5 - 1 Peter 3:5-6 - Living in a Relationship - Day 2

Posted on September 24, 2016 at 9:25 PM Comments comments (0)

Session 5 – 1 Peter 3:5-6 – Living in a Relationship – Day 2

 

1 Peter 3:5 For in the past, the holy women who put their hope in God also beautified themselves in this way, submitting to their own husbands, 6 just as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord. You have become her children when you do what is good and are not frightened by anything alarming.

 

For a Christian woman, what is most important “beauty secret?” She must beautify herself by submitting to God first and foremost. If she is married, she must submit to her husband as well as long as following him does not lead her away from obedience to God. So would you say that her inward character is more important than her complexion, hair-do, and clothing? Without a doubt! Christ-like character is her primary adornment. Everything else is periphery to her inward beauty. As our grandmothers tried to teach us, “Pretty is as pretty does.”

 

Do those women who are married really need to address their husband as “lord” as Sarah did? In their culture, that was a respectful way to address her husband. She was preferring her husband and honoring him as the treasure that God had given to protect and build her up, enabling her to achieve God’s purpose for her life. Abraham was not always stellar at guarding Sarah as he should such as when he told her to say she was his sister and she almost ended up as part of Pharaoh’s harem! (Genesis 12:10-20), but God protected her as she obeyed him. So, I take away from this that wives should not speak harshly or put their husbands down, but should treat them the way they would want to be treated – with respect. (Golden Rule – Matthew 7:12) This in no way means that the wife is the husband’s doormat. Marriage is based on mutual respect and submitting to each other.

 

Ephesians 5:21 (ESV) submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ.

 

Also, if obeying her husband would cause a woman to disobey God, she must choose God over her husband just as the apostles chose God over the rulers of their time.

 

Acts 5:29 (ESV) But Peter and the apostles answered, “We must obey God rather than men.

 

Could the wife face intimidation or mistreatment if she chose to obey God rather than her husband? She certain could, especially if her husband is not a believer. It would be extremely hard to follow through with a Christian example of submission and respect with a non-believing spouse because you might want to cut and run. But for the potential salvation of his soul by Jesus, a woman would persevere. In the case of potential physical harm to the wife or the children, she would need to leave and seek safety. This must be why Peter (by the Holy Spirit) tells the woman to do good and not be alarmed. These situations are exactly why we must be careful in choosing a mate not to marry a non-believer. The women in Peter’s day generally had no choice as marriages were arranged. Or sometimes one marries before becoming a Christian and finds themselves in a difficult situation. But as Peter has stated, the wife’s changed life is a testimony to the husband (or vice versa). Husbands – Peter will deal with you tomorrow!

 

Challenge to Married Women: This week try really hard not to talk back, roll your eyes, or in any other way show disrespect to you husband EVEN IF he does not return the positive attitude. Instead pray for him and encourage him in his walk with the Lord. You might need to pray every morning for the Lord to help you hold your temper and your tongue.

 

Session 5 - 1 Peter 3:1-4 - Living in a Relationship - Day 1

Posted on September 24, 2016 at 8:55 PM Comments comments (0)

Session 5 – 1 Peter 3:1-4 – Living in a Relationship – Day 1

 

1 Peter 3:1 (HCSB) In the same way, wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, even if some disobey the Christian message, they may be won over without a message by the way their wives live 2 when they observe your pure, reverent lives.

 

By starting this section with “in the same way,” is Peter saying that wives are slaves to their husbands? No, as we read on and as we look at cross references, we will see that wives are a treasured gift from God to their husbands. They are to be respected and loved even as Christ loved the church. Hint: Christ died for the church! So husbands are to love their wives sacrificially. Also, Paul taught in Ephesians that Christian spouses are to submit to one another:

 

Ephesians 5:21 (HCSB) submitting to one another in the fear of Christ.

 

Are women somehow inferior to men? No, we are not inferior or some kind of sub-class of humanity. According to the Lord through the Apostle Paul, we are equal:

 

Galatians 3:28 There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free man, there is neither male nor female; for you are all one in Christ Jesus.

 

Why, then, should a woman submit to her husband? In submitting, women honor the Lord; and, therefore, fall under His protection as we respect His pattern for the family. Organizations must have a leader. In an army the enlisted man obeys the officers even though the enlisted man may be more experienced. As the husband and wife submit first to the Lord, and then to each other, there may still be times when an agreement about a decision cannot be reached. At that point, the wife is to defer to the husband; and the husband is accountable to God for his choices. The wife has obeyed the Lord by submitting to her husband, so the accountability rests on the husband. HOWEVER, this does not give her the right to say, “I told you so,” if things go awry!

 

What does the wife do if her husband is NOT a Christian and is not living according to God’s commands? She lives as if she is in front of the audience of One to bring God pleasure, and the overflow of this obedience will be an irresistible light of the Gospel to the husband. Rather than arguing about Christianity or using all kinds of persuasion with him, the wife should quietly live like a believer in front of him. And of course, she should constantly be praying for his salvation!

 

  

1 Peter 3:3 Your beauty should not consist of outward things like elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold ornaments or fine clothes.

 

Does this mean I cannot wear jewelry or dress up for a fancy occasion? No, it means don’t let yourself think that your clothes can elevate you higher than your character can. Your clothes will not take you where your character cannot keep you. I think the message here is to avoid excess, to avoid focusing so much on the outward appearance that your inward person is neglected. Clothing, jewelry, makeup, and hairstyles can reflect positively or negatively about a woman’s moral character. We must dress in a way that is honoring to our Father, glorifying to God rather than ourselves.

 

 

1 Peter 3:4 Instead, it should consist of what is inside the heart with the imperishable quality of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very valuable in God’s eyes.

 

The motivation, the heartbeat of the woman, the intricacies of her spirit are of immeasurable worth to God. I get that the focus should be on my inward qualities, but does quiet mean I have to be silent? I’m a bit loud at times. No, not silent, but it does mean that you need to be still before God before you speak. When you speak be aware of your tone and where you speak. Do not speak to your husband about a disputed issue in front of friends or extended family or even your children. Address these things privately and gently, in love rather than judgement and condemnation. I think this is true in any of our close relationships whether it be a spouse, a close friend, or a roommate.

 

Challenge: Wives – this week try to be submissive to your husbands. Focus on living out your salvation in front of him and ministering to him. Husbands – remember that in submission to the Lord, you are to love your wife sacrificially. Try this week to live that out in your home. Couples – maybe even journal or jot down how this experiment in doing things God’s way works this week.